STI's in Gay Men is on the Rise

Alarming reports of sexually transmitted diseases are on the rise with men who have intercourse with the same sex and young adults are the most susceptible group to acquire the infections. The records shows 40 per cent of infections with the new strains from gonorrhea infection, while 60 per cent of the new syphilis infections were found in gay and bisexual men. The recent studies have shown a significant increase by one third from last year's recorded cases. While genital herpes is on the rise as well, it comes in third place. The figure shows that we must be more aggressive in combating these types of infections. Global incident of these sexually transmitted diseases are on the rise the likes of chlamydia, genital herpes and also HIV are on record breaking high this year. To prevent the prevalence of this type of infection the World Health Organization (WHO) is being proactive in the dissemination of information more than ever in educating homosexual men with their sex encounters with the same sex.

Ways of Avoiding STI's

Well the first line of defense to avoid having infections with the said STI's like gonorrhea, genital herpes, chlamydia, syphilis and other sexually acquired contagion with gay men is getting the correct information to avoid contracting the diseases in the first place nothing beats educating one's self. Using a condom is a great alternative in keeping the communicable disease at bay. Being in a committed relationship with a loyal partner is another great way to avoid HIV and the likes of the said virus. We are responsible with our bodies so it’s just right to know the alternatives that let us still enjoy sexual pleasures without being scared of the consequences after having sex. Gay bare back may not really be a recommended practice when it comes to fornicating because there is little or no protection at all, unless you only have a partner to do it with and also constantly having regular check-ups. The thing is new strains of gonorrhea don't work with conventional medications. It’s frighting to think that gay men are the most susceptible in contracting these type of infections and if you happen to contract one of the infection it’s more likely that you’re going to contract the HIV more easily.

STI's and Being Gay

It doesn't mean that you're gay you can be careless about your sexual health. Each one of us has the obligation on being responsible adults in the sheets. The more people you sleep with, you put yourself and others in a much greater risk of getting miasma and the risk of passing it to other sexual partners you encounter. Being armed with the right information and disseminating the information to your friends would be a great boost in imparting the knowledge you know in helping others on avoiding in catching the disease.

List of Athletes Who Came Out of the Closet from 2000

Since 2000, the situation for homosexuals has been really good. A lot of states have approved the same-sex marriage, more LGBT rights organizations have been popping up, and a lot of male athlete gay jocks have been coming out and showing the public that stereo typing sports in to something masculine is not entirely correct. Here is a list of brave sports men who came out of the 'locker' since 2000.

Graham Ackerman
Sports: gymnastics
Coming Out Year: 2005
Rainbow Line: "A lot of people consider gymnastics one of the gay sports, but there isn't a ton of gay people that do it."

David Testo
Sports: soccer
Coming Out Year: 2011
Rainbow Line: "I’m gay, I’m gay. I did not choose. It’s just part of who I am. And it has nothing to do with the talent of a soccer player. You can be both an excellent soccer player and being gay."

John Amaechi
Sports: basketball
Coming Out Year: 2007
Rainbow Line: "I am not a hero nor am I special in any regard, I am simply doing what a good person of conscience would do, which is making people aware that gay people don't just look like Jack from 'Will and Grace'."

Chad Conley
Sports: Figure Skating
Coming Out Year: 2006
Rainbow Line: "Over the last 5 years, I have noticed more straight guys in that sport, particularly in pairs and dance. Some people may think that is a shock, but being a figure skater doesn't hold the stigma that myself and others felt 10 or 12 years ago."

Tyler Hoffman
Sports: professional baseball umpire
Coming Out Year: 2002
Rainbow Line: "To get ahead, it's imperative to assimilate and be accepted. I know many straight guys who changed their personalities and values for a shot at the big time. An openly gay guy wouldn't have had a chance, but I did."

Andrew Holder
Sports: swimming
Coming Out Year: 2000
Rainbow Line: "Collegiate and professional athletics remain unsafe and unwelcoming for many gay and lesbian athletes: the locker rooms and playing fields of team sports are littered with homophobic rhetoric and a pervasive "don't ask don't tell" atmosphere. As a result, gay and lesbian student-athletes are encouraged to cloister their true selves, many hiding in shame and self-contempt from their coaches and teammates."

Charles Jones
Sports: boxing
Coming Out Year: 2001
Rainbow Line: "I'm not a gay man who happens to box, I'm a boxer who happens to be gay and doesn't give a toss who knows it."

Gareth Thomas
Sports: rugby football
Coming Out Year: 2009
Rainbow Line: "I don't want to be known as a gay rugby player. I am a rugby player, first and foremost I am a man."

Balian Buschbaum
Sports: pole vault
Coming Out Year: 2003
Rainbow Line: "I am aware of the fact that transsexualism is a fringe issue, and I do not want to be responsible for it remaining on the fringe."

John Paul (J. P.) Calderon
Sports: volleyball
Coming Out Year: 2007
Rainbow Line: "All of my fears, everything that I was scared of, it was the complete the opposite! It's been great (since I came out). All of my friends, the volleyball world, absolutely everybody has been supportive. No one has shut me out."

Xoxo,
Rainbowloveboy

Category for an Ideal Gay Partner

This goes without saying that we all have our own category in looking for a partner. A friend of mine insisted that the three exceptional and only category every single human must look for in a partner: physical attractiveness for first impressions; money or power for security; and intellect and personality for companionship. Would you rather have an amateur gay boyfriend? Or an expert gay daddy? Call me old fashioned, but, aren't these all too superficial? Sure we can start with a matching point system, but wouldn’t that be too shallow? We need to have someone who would compliment who we are, or someone who might be our opposite but can actually fill in all of those holes in us (no pun intended). Some people may have thought that they could have found a much better partner for themselves but are still sticking to their current spouse not because of that mushy thing we call 'love' but because the sex is amazing or the boyfriend has something to say and is a good talker or even for the slightest reason like he is a neat freak. These are just some of the characteristics that could compliment us. Someone who could really be there for us and can make us a part of their world. The only thing I can recommend is find someone who is humane yet with flaws but will suit you.

Personally, I just want one that is willing to take good care of me. That's it! Because from there; stability, respect, loyalty, and all that jazz just follow through. The charm would definitely grow once love is there and good looks and a great body come in as bonuses. Let me tell you this... I have actually found that 'one', my Neo. He is someone who actually seeks the best for me and thinks about my welfare. He's not sharp looking, just an average man with the most beautiful eyes. Not a muscle dude, but with enough meat to give me warmth when he embraces me. He doesn't smell anything like D&G, but his scent intoxicates me, I even smell him though he's not near! This one's not a fashion rock star, but he dresses up for me. He is currently away, but he tries his best to call and sends me sweet short messages. He just might be the eternal one, you know? (*wink)

So tell me, what is YOUR category?

Xoxo,

Rainbowloveboy

Beary Interesting

Bear, in gay culture or gay slang, is a term referring to a category in the LGBT community. It generally describes a gay man whose body is similar to a literal bear. They tend to be hairy almost all over, from the body to the face. They are usually heavy or muscular, ruggedly hyper masculine, deep voiced, and are often into leathers and bikes. They have actually formed a lot of movements and clubs to basically separate themselves from the mother gay community. Not really to disassociate themselves to gay people but to create a social opportunity for their own. Many of these clubs have masculine pageants, boasting their most "beautiful" bear with title leather sashes and trophies. Bears, since they have their own community, have identified two sub-communities: the muscle-bears and the chub-bears. Muscle-bears, well, are well-built and stay away from higher body fats, often goes to the gym, and are mostly healthy or fit. Chub-bears on the other hand are the ones who are less health conscious, with more flab, and appreciate food more as they are not into depriving themselves from the joys of eating.

Should I be vicious or cuddly?

There's been a debate regarding the real category of being a bear, is it about the character of a gay man (wild, hunter, strong) or just about the physical appearance (hairy, big-boned, tall)? The issue rose because not a single bear embodies ALL the characteristics that define this class. Some questions to this discussion are: Should they be all masculine? What about those who are cuddly? Will they still be called bears if they are big yet smooth?

Gay Bear Brotherhood Flag

Here are some slang or terms used around the Gay Bear Community:

• Bear run – a gathering or circuit party for bear/cub types and their admirers.
• Baloo - an older bear who befriends and welcomes a younger bear (Cub) into bear culture.
• Black bear - a bear of Black/African-American descent.
• Brown bear - a bear of Hispanic, Middle Eastern, or South Asian descent.
• Chaser – short for chubby chaser, or a man who likes overweight men. Is also used to generalize bear admirers.
• Chub – a heavy set gay man. May or may not be a bear (chubby bear is a common term).
• Cub – a younger (or younger looking) version of a bear, typically but not always with a smaller frame. The term is sometimes used to imply the passive partner in a relationship. Can be hairy or hairless.
• Daddy bear – an older bear, sometimes looking for a daddy/son relationship with a younger man.
• Goldilocks – a female, often heterosexual, who is often in the company of bears (a bear's fag hag).
• Grizzly Adams – a man who is hairy and is attracted to bears; but does not self-identify as a bear.
• Grizzly bear - a very dominant, heavy, tall, or hairy bear.
• Koala Bear - a bear of Australian descent.
• Otter – a man who is hairy, but is not large or stocky – typically thinner, swimmer's build, or with lean muscle or no muscle.
• Panda bear – a bear of Asian descent.
• Pocket bear – a short bear.
• Polar bear – a silver- or white-haired bear.
• Redwood - a red-haired bear.

If you do feel like you are a bear, then by all means, be a gay bear.

Xoxo

Rainbow Love Boy

An Analysis of a Gay Party

Here is a revelation of how and what a gay party really is. Most, specially straight men and women, would assume that these 'happy' parties consist of colorful balloons, flowers all over the venue, rainbow make ups, bombastic costumes, wings, and glitters ~ not all, that's a gay pride parade, darling; not a cocktail event. Remember that if and when a homosexual organizes a home or bar party, it will be very different. Ladies and gents, we will be closely examining this kind of event point by point.

Invites - The first thing to know about a gay party is that they never ever buy the invitations from petty bookstores nor print them out on a sheet of white paper chosen from a list of free template seen on and downloaded from the internet. These are usually made to order with specific font size and style, these then go to the respective guests via mail at least a couple of months prior to the event to let the invitee gather all that is needed in attending. And when they use the RSVP or respondez s'il vous plait, they are serious about it. No response means no China ware for you.

Theme - A motif for a gay party usually goes toward being laid back and cozy with a hint of gentle courteousness and a bit of chivalry (think Bree Van de Kamp of Desperate Housewives). Prim and proper yet exotic, well mannered but kinky, noble but still tricky, chic and royal. The theme is the core of how a gay party would proceed. This has a huge impact on who they wouldn't be inviting and who will actually be invited, what kind of ambiance the whole party would have, how much drama would take place, and what kind of ending (bang) the shindig would cease with.

Fashion - Clothings, as mentioned above, are not the clothes already seen in their closets and used as an everyday cover for the body. These should be brand new, crisp, and must be in accordance to the theme. Everybody who attends must come with their most beautiful look, a look way better than the last party they have been to and were seen on, or else they would just be either the latest topic on the "who's who gossip chronicle" or would not even be worthy of a nice conversation. Gay people spend a lot of time and money coming up for a presentable outfit and so should you.

Music - This will be based on the central theme. Generally, the chosen songs would be that for easy listening. Something not too groovy nor heavy, no drum and bass, really kind to the ears, and good for conversation. Gay organized social parties are for socializing anyway, so music is just a background for added effect.

The Booze and Food - Remember that the chow and drinks being served in this kind of event are not the ordinary junk food you see in a fast food chain nor something from a convenience store. Striking and unusual food and beverage are often offered to the guests; sushi, different kinds of cheeses, wild fruits, variants of edible flowers/plants, prime cold cuts, exotic sea food; champagne, liqueur, Italian flavored soda pops, an array of cocktails, and the best beer in town. The bartender is often straight and is offered as an eye candy, he is also an extra sight in lieu to the exhaustion of seeing all pink.

I hope you have acquired the needed knowledge regarding gay parties and make good use of them. So, next time you receive an invite from any one of us, feel lucky and be happy. And oh, and if you are granted to have a plus one, make sure that person is game on anything.

Xoxo,

Rainbow Love Boy

Getting the Best of Both Worlds (Bisexuals and Gays)

 Bi. Not Gay. Not Straight. Bi.

Let's define what bisexuality is, we need to understand that this is very different and way far from having a sexual fetish towards both male and female genders, this one is called "pansexuality". Going back, an entry in Wikipedia states: "Bisexuality is sexual behavior or an orientation involving physical and/or romantic attraction to both males and females, especially in regards to men and women. It is one of the three main classifications of sexual orientation, along with a heterosexual and a homosexual orientation", or simply put by the Urban Dictionary: "The ability to reach down someone's pants and be satisfied with whatever they find."

You can never explain what bisexuality really is to a heterosexual (straight man/woman). And needless to say, it will also be difficult to talk about it to most confirmed homosexuals or to anyone with narrow minds as they are determined and have thought to only have one preference. Most say that bisexuality is where sexual confusion lies, and that bisexuals are just uncertain on which way to go: straight or gay? Generally, open gay guys who came out of the closet in college become the typical swishy stylish stereotypes, hence, them not getting involved in any female interaction (aside from making  these women their best friends or shopping buddies) or relationship and probably never in a sexual activity. They won't be able to comprehend a different or another persona outside of their boxes considering what they have been living their lifestyles and matters that they have associated themselves with for years. It is in their nature to act accordingly, just like lions hunting on deer or fishes swim through streams. If you take a closer look at a usual heterosexual threesome, the guys go for the girl and not each other. Everything in one dimension becomes very different when made into a dual dimension which bi's have. A straight man is not supposed to make any sort of advance to another straight guy as this would mean he is gay, and if a gay dude is drawn to a woman, he must then convert to a straight way of life.

Being an AC/DC is not something like a monthly menstrual cycle where they are 'normal' for 28 days then turns 'gay' on the 29th to 30th, and definitely not a Hulk thing that they suddenly get attracted to a different gender due to certain stimulation. There's no formula. Not all bi's have the exact "50-50" attraction to men and women, their interest on both can never ever be equal. They can and will stick to one gender- but as a choice, not something that will make them contemplate about their orientation. Bisexuals are also thought to be greedy as they gather all that cross they paths, wrong. Being drawn to both sexes do not necessarily mean being drawn to every single person on earth. It is not about 'everybody', it is about 'either'. Another misunderstanding with this preference is that duals are thought to date two to three people at the same time, this is a misconception. Most of them are enjoying their one-partner relationships. Sure, bisexuals have casual sex and maybe even engage in partner swapping, but they definitely CAN stick to just one partner.

Xoxo,

Rainbow Love Boy

Pop Shot (An Attempt to Have an Adult Discussion About IT)

Before moving to the main article, I bet you were kind of lured and maybe attracted to the title. Maybe you also got intrigued or curious? This is an effort to try and discuss, in an adult way (yes, popsicle is an 'adult way'), one kind of fetish that is commonly seen at the end of most adult films- the cum shot.

Every single person in the world has some form of fantasy and only the fortunate (if they are given the chance to enact the deed) and the brave ones actually allow themselves to act these out. Fantasies will definitely vary and evolve as time goes by. However, most get stuck with one or a couple of deeply bewitching erotic mental images. Try and think about yours for a while. There is surely one specific special fantasy that plays over and over in your mind every time you whip out your little fella for a private playtime, a bit similar to that special song you have heard yesterday and synched it to your iPod and put it on 'repeat'.

Thousands or even millions of guys are out there who enjoys or loves drizzling their love butter on surfaces. This is the main reason why an abundant number of X-rated films have their actors discharge externally. In movies or magazines (please assume that the materials stated here are all about adult contents), the money making scenes are the ones with the men's load shooting straight out. The number of men engaging in this kind of fantasy is increasing due to the influence of these materials that are seen with the very same picture. We can only expect that this fantasy is essentially becoming secretly accepted by most men and will, at some point, reenact this desire.

There are atleast four types of pop shots: facials, orals, physiques, and aerials. These may be strange little fascinations but they do exist. Facials are shots aiming for the face. The receiver accepts the cream on his face, an ingredient in this style is that the recipient 'asks for it'. Orals, on one hand, are shots directed to the mouth. Physiques are discharged on any part of the body but usually on the abdomen or chest. And aerial shots are the ones that are let to drip or propelled. An example of a specific variety of pop shot in a group act is Bukkake, originally from Japan but has widely spread in to the United States of America and in Europe, where in all the males involved take turns in dumping their seeds on one single partaker.

Instead of assuming that this fetish is bad or strange, maybe people should become more open and accepting of such sexual fantasy. We ALL have our own illusions. Think of it as a dirty, naughty, fun little open secret and not a taboo. The best sexual relationships are based on trust and commitment. If certain people can entrust you their wildest sexual dreams, then commit by not just divulging it to anyone else and if you are in a relationship or are involved in each other, why not explore each others visions? Gay cum shots are one way to go. :P

Xoxo,

Rainbow Love Boy