Before there was 'swing partner' (temporary switching of partners) then there was 'two way' (having a fixed couple for swapping); now, there is 'threesome' (not to be confused with orgy). Most gay men prefer having a thrilling sexual activity, from using toys to whipping to different positions, but at present, having two male individuals for sexual intercourse at the same time is becoming more and more popular. It is more about experimenting, extra fun, and having double the satisfaction. But before jumping into this activity, people need to know that there are some non-verbalized rules and regulations to avoid sticky situations (Wow, that rhymes!). This activity can become very disastrous if people just start hitting on and inviting other persons they are attracted to a threesome without the proper knowledge and understanding.
There are basic courtesy on gay threesome. First, do not just say "Hey! Do you want to have a threesome with me and my buddy?". This type of intercourse may be just for fun or may not be as romantic as a candle lit lovey dovey, but it is not a joke to be messed with. Start by engaging the man with sexy ideas and flirt with him more. Make him comfortable and prepare him for the exciting night. Let him realize that he will not be vulnerable nor get hurt. Let the newly found 'friend' get well acquainted with your buddy, for both of them will be part of the action.
Second, know the signals. When a guy is invited to this act and he seems uncomfortable with the situation, either inspire him a bit more or move on to another. Not all are interested in engaging in this kind of activity. Remember that encouraging and pushing are two very different statements. And if the person keeps smiling, makes naughty eye contacts, and flirts with you and your buddy, then that is a good go signal.
Third, when the three involved men are all 'in', set up your own specific set of policy that every one will agree on. For instance, "no hitting on the face" or "all must actively participate". The party may also designate roles. Having a 'bottom', 'top', and a 'versatile' is the perfect combination, because there wouldn't be any conflict on deciding what job one must play.
Fourth, be as giving as possible. Do not over indulge on one's self. One must understand that threesome is not having two men performing on one man. The three must have the mentality that this is "one man trying to satisfy two men". Although, it might not be impossible for the two to be more intimate on each other leaving the other one a bit out of place, the latter must then exert more effort by either kissing, touching, or caressing. All must have almost the same quality and quantity.
Lastly, all must be safe. Condoms are very important. Have fun with protection and make the most out of it. Do not, by any chance, involve in a gay threesome without protection. Keep in mind that it's better to be safe than sorry. Start that engine up and find that third wheel.
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